Ali and I were talking about our town, and it appears that he feels no ties to here at all, and would happily move if it wasn't for the disruption it would cause the kids.
I on the other hand love this place, and very much feel that this town is my home. We have been here for just over 10 years now. Originally we moved here as it was close to my work, and convenient for both sets of our parents.
However over the last 10 years we have had 4 kids here, and I have made some truly great friends. In general I know that if I have a problem I can pick up the phone and call a friend, and there will most likely be someone who will step up to the mark.
In years gone by it would have traditionally been the extended families and in particular Granny's job to help out, but I like a little space, so its really important to have friends instead.
I know the town well, have worked, run toddler groups and given birth here 4 times. We have dragged up 4 kids, all the way through baby groups, preschool settings, infant, and junior school, and are now looking at Senior school for Aidan.
I like going out and knowing that I will most likely at some stage say hello to someone ( although this has its disadvantages when I go out looking like a dirty smelly old troll). I like knowing where facilities are, and the best places to go for things. In particular I like knowing where to walk the dogs depending on the amount of time I have available.
Living by the seaside holds great appeal, but I would really struggle to leave my home, and especially my friends behind.
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